I am BEYOND excited to share with you my Fall 2020 statement apparel!!
Codependency in its simplest definition is when one person in a relationship has an excessive psychological reliance on their partner to make him/her feel happy, loved, accepted, valued and good about themselves.
In 2020 we have this false notion that we should just BE. Like…voila, I am. Voila, I am a college graduate. Voila, I am married. Voila, I have a healthy and loving relationship with myself. But, that’s not how life works. Especially when it comes to love, even loving ourselves.
“You’re not inspirational.” Words spoken into my life by a highly respected and influential leader. I’m not gonna lie. Those words caused me to believe I wasn’t good enough to be an effective leader. Because a leader is supposed to be inspirational right?
As I look over this past decade of my life, I’ve discovered and experienced a greater sense of joy, purpose, well-being, peace, and significance by letting go of 6 major things (see below). In 2020 and beyond, I commit to embracing 6 other things at a greater level so I can receive all God wants to do in and through me. It’s time for me to live a better story. How about you? What’s on your “let go” and “embrace” list? I’d love to know!
🙋🏽♀️I decided to stop doubting my value…
What is imposter syndrome?
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Do you attribute your success to luck or coincidence?
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Do you agonize over the smallest flaws or imperfections in your work?
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When you succeed, do you secretly feel like you’ve fooled others again?
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Do you worry that it’s just a matter of time before others find out you’ve been “running a game” on them?